Courage Woman

Instead of remembering the wrong that men have committed against women, lets remember what women can do to right the wrong committed against them.

Work towards self-reliance and financial independence. A woman with education and income is a woman with greater choices and courage before and after marriage.

In fact, do not even consider entering into a contract of marriage until you have acquired enough education to get gainful employment and the means to support at least yourself is in the lifestyle you desired.

Do not marry to fulfill financial needs. You will be selling your "soul" and "self". Do not marry to seek happiness. You will be putting an impossible burden to another human being. Do not marry because you are pregnant. Marriage is not the solution to unplanned parenthood. Do not marry into dependence.It is simply suicide.

Marry when you are happy and fulfilled. Marry when you have traveled where you've always wanted. Marry when you have fallen and failed but have risen and triumphed.

Marry when you have pursued your passion and have learned life's lesson.Marry when you have you've had enough significant human experience to bring wisdom and maturity to a marriage. Marry when you don't need to for survival but want to for significance.

If you believe you have found the right man, ask yourself this question. Can you live without this man despite everything that you feel for him? If the answer is "yes" then he's probably the right one.

The best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.

Walk away from the man you believed you cannot live without and you will learn to live quite able by yourself.

Women wake up. Do not expect marriage or support when you get pregnant by design. Do not expect respect from sex used as leverage.Do not expect love to spring from entrapment. Do not expect loyalty to come from betrayal. Do not expect man to live their wives.

Stop looking to men as saviors of your misfortunes. Stop looking for men as cash cows.Stop looking from men, as scapegoats for your miseries. Take full responsibility for your actions...